When the Holidays intensify feelings of loneliness
We like to say that the holidays bring people together, that it’s a bright, warm season filled with reunions. And yet… for many, this time of year accentuates a gap that’s hard to name: the gap between what we’re “supposed” to feel and what we actually feel.
Loneliness during the holidays doesn’t always look like isolation. It can exist even when surrounded by people, even with a full schedule, even with beautiful decorations around. It slips into the silences, the absences, the comparisons, the judgments. Into that space where expectations don’t quite match what’s going on inside.
Some people are living with loss, grief, or a recent change. Others carry an accumulated fatigue — an emotional overload held in place all year long. Others simply feel that everything meant to be festive doesn’t quite resonate with them.
It isn’t strange.
It isn’t rare.
It’s deeply human.
During the holidays, loneliness becomes more noticeable because everything pushes us toward the idea of being together. When that “together” isn’t accessible, whether by choice or circumstance, the gap becomes sharper. And that gap can hurt.
At Tel-Aide Montréal, we hear this every year.
Voices looking for a kind, attentive ear.
People who don’t want to burden their loved ones, who don’t know whom to confide in, or who simply have no one available to listen.
People who function, who keep going, but who, during the holidays, just need a space to set down a bit of what they’ve been carrying.
Calling isn’t a sign of weakness.
It’s a wellness gesture.
A way of saying:
“I deserve to be welcomed in whatever I’m living, even if it isn’t joyful. I deserve to exist beyond the image others expect from me.”
What we offer is a conversation without performance, without expectations, without the pressure to “feel better” right away. A space where someone can be themselves, between two emotions, between two memories. A place to express oneself more freely, without wondering what the other person is thinking.
Because loneliness doesn’t need to be fixed : it needs to be acknowledged.
If the holidays intensify this feeling for you, know that you’re not alone.
There are places where your words have room, where your experience matters, where your voice counts.
We’re here.
At all times, 24/7, even during the holidays.
Because being heard feels good.
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